Published on March 14, 2005 By psyched In Personal Relationships
I am working as a School Counselor since the past one year. I have been helping students deal with behavioral problems in the age group 6 to 13 years. While interacting with the students, I realised that they wanted their parents and teachers to listen to them, to understand them.Kids today are growing up very quickly. They understand when spoken to on a one to one basis and want to be treated as adults right from standard one. Parents have an imporatnt role to play in raising their children. Parenting is surely not an easy task...
There's been so much stress on spending "quality" time with children that the whole meaning of quality has perhaps become distorted! I think eating dinner together or watching television also constitutes quality time.
Well, this is my opinion..

Comments
on Mar 14, 2005
Not sure I'd agree with you on the television, but dinner can be quality time. Maybe it depends on what you watch and how you interact while watching?
on Mar 14, 2005
I guess television would be quality time if you watch a favorite program with your child. My son loves it when I watch his favorite shows with him. He knows I love animation so that's a thing we share together. My toddler loves when I watch her Barney and Dora programs with her. We sing and dance together. My older teen loves when we watch videos and some of those musical stuff together. This way I show them what I approve of and what I don't approve of and we get to chat about what's going on in their lives. So, being realistic, a lot of parents do let their children watch the telly, no getting away from it and you find a way to incorporate it into your family time.

Listening is also very important to kids.
on Mar 14, 2005
I think anything you do with your kkids one on one or with them all is "quality time". My personal favorite is we're all sitting in my bedroom draped wherever we fall either watching TV, or each doing his own thing... Or just sitting around talking. (I love that, they tell us damned near everything.) In summary, I consider every last second precious and go the extra mile to have the kids with me